Wednesday 11/04/09

I went to bed early because I was tired, around 9:30p and Daphnee was laying with me in my bed. A few minutes after I was asleep, Ken came in the room, flipped the light on and starting yelling at me and throwing a paper in my face, asking me what this was all about. The paper in question was the copy of an email that was sent about one year ago to a friend of mine (edited of course to remove email addresses, addressee and closing statements that would identify who the recipient was). I had the copy of this email in order to show our counselor Dee Collins that my feelings about the relationship were the same a year before. This paper was in my purse which was zipped by the front door, where I usually leave it.
When I asked Ken why he went through my purse again, he told me that he wanted to put a letter in my purse and just happened to see the paper and decided to read it. I know for a fact that this paper was in the middle of other papers, at the bottom of my purse and that he had to remove my wallet and 2 check books in order to get to it.
For the following 2 hours, he kept me up, was yelling and in my face about who, what, how and why in regards to this paper. I kept my calm and kept on repeating that all I wanted was to go to sleep and that Daphnee was right there. Of course she woke up and so did Julius who was sleeping in his room. Both of them were upset and complained of stomach pains.
At one point, Ken started to poke me hard with his finger on my back and chest area, my head in order to force me to talk to him. I kept on asking him to stop touching me. Finally about 11:30p I was able to go to sleep.