Friday, September 25, 2009
Toyota Camry
On Saturday September 12, 2009, I removed the 2nd keyless key for the Camry from Ken's key chain. His keys were on the kitchen island.
Bank of America (2)
I received my new card the week of September 7, 2009. As of today Ken still doesn't know that his card is canceled and that he is no longer an authorized user.
Chase Credit Card (2)
I received the paperwork on September 11, 2009 to remove Ken from the account, filled it out, signed it on September 12th, 2009 and asked him to sign it. He refused. As of today, his name is still on the account but he does not have a credit nor access to one.
Friday 09/25/09 (2)
Ken called me at 9:45am this morning and I informed him that he needed to pick Daphnee up from daycare because I wouldn't be coming straight home. He refused. He has not been back on time to get Daphnee before 6pm this week or last week.
Note - I have a 6:30p appointment with Dee, our counselor, for a Power Conference at her office in South Holland.
Note (2) - Ken Jr is unable to pick her up because Julius, who has a sprained ankle, can not stay home by himself and can not walk to the daycare.
Note - I have a 6:30p appointment with Dee, our counselor, for a Power Conference at her office in South Holland.
Note (2) - Ken Jr is unable to pick her up because Julius, who has a sprained ankle, can not stay home by himself and can not walk to the daycare.
Friday 09/25/09
Had to remove porn from the family computer this morning after Ken left 10 Internet Explorer windows minimized but not closed from Blackbook.com - a porn and dating website.
He was in the basement for over one hour the night before, where the computer is. I figured he was looking at porn so I went in an checked in the morning to make sure that he didn't leave anything open, which he did, because it's the computer that the children use. If I didn't close everything, my 13 yo and 10 yo sons could have seen it when they came back from school.
He was in the basement for over one hour the night before, where the computer is. I figured he was looking at porn so I went in an checked in the morning to make sure that he didn't leave anything open, which he did, because it's the computer that the children use. If I didn't close everything, my 13 yo and 10 yo sons could have seen it when they came back from school.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Email from Ken to Dee 9/20/09
Sunday, September 20, 2009 12:06AM
From: Ken
To: Dee
"hello dee we need a sit down to discuss what direction we are going in with this marriage i think this bountries thing that Anne and you came up with is a bad ideal am trying to bring my wife closer an this is pulling her even farther away from me I cant touch her or be near her with out there becomeing a problem you told me to trust God and you an everything will be find well it not it is worst than before are you going to help me save our marriage am doing what you said but nothing has change as of today ,we been going to you for about six week and it not better yet .where do we go from here how will you help????????? me and my family my kids need mom an dad in the same house as husband an wife please help thank you ken."
From: Ken
To: Dee
"hello dee we need a sit down to discuss what direction we are going in with this marriage i think this bountries thing that Anne and you came up with is a bad ideal am trying to bring my wife closer an this is pulling her even farther away from me I cant touch her or be near her with out there becomeing a problem you told me to trust God and you an everything will be find well it not it is worst than before are you going to help me save our marriage am doing what you said but nothing has change as of today ,we been going to you for about six week and it not better yet .where do we go from here how will you help????????? me and my family my kids need mom an dad in the same house as husband an wife please help thank you ken."
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Tuesday 9/1/09 - Afternoon
I was on my way home from work.
Ken 4:45p (aborted)
Ken 4:45p (aborted 2)
Ken 4:45p (7:33)
Ken 5:07p (aborted)
Ken 5:07p "Cal me did u know dap on wrong bus"
Ken 5:08p (aborted)
Ken 5:10p (aborted)
Ken 5:11p "Mrs weekly want me 2 tel u did u fix da problem pick up da phone"
Ken 5:12p (aborted)
Anne 5:12p (6:09)
Ken 5:20p "Please dont go 2 da lawer or nothin else are u coming strait home"
Ken 5:22p (aborted)
Driving in Homewood, southbound on Riegel Road, he was driving the van northbound on the same road with Daphnee in the minivan. He saw me and made a u-turn to follow me. I pulled over on Willow Road and he stopped in front of me and start an argument. Daphnee came in the car with me and Ken followed me home.
Ken 4:45p (aborted)
Ken 4:45p (aborted 2)
Ken 4:45p (7:33)
Ken 5:07p (aborted)
Ken 5:07p "Cal me did u know dap on wrong bus"
Ken 5:08p (aborted)
Ken 5:10p (aborted)
Ken 5:11p "Mrs weekly want me 2 tel u did u fix da problem pick up da phone"
Ken 5:12p (aborted)
Anne 5:12p (6:09)
Ken 5:20p "Please dont go 2 da lawer or nothin else are u coming strait home"
Ken 5:22p (aborted)
Driving in Homewood, southbound on Riegel Road, he was driving the van northbound on the same road with Daphnee in the minivan. He saw me and made a u-turn to follow me. I pulled over on Willow Road and he stopped in front of me and start an argument. Daphnee came in the car with me and Ken followed me home.
Tuesday 9/1/09
Ken 1:29p "Can u come 2 carbou?
Anne 1:29p "No busy"
Ken 1:31p "Maybe next time thanks"
Ken 1:32p "Ok il go back 2 work"
He also called me at work twice between 1:00p and 1:15p and on my cell at 1:00p (Aborted), 1:06p (6:31), 1:13p (Aborted), 1:15p (Aborted).
Ken never said where he was at that time, or that he was on his way downtown. The next day, I found out by the parking attendant that Ken came by the car and went in it. He told me that he saw the "Pest Control" truck so he knew it was my husband.
Anne 1:29p "No busy"
Ken 1:31p "Maybe next time thanks"
Ken 1:32p "Ok il go back 2 work"
He also called me at work twice between 1:00p and 1:15p and on my cell at 1:00p (Aborted), 1:06p (6:31), 1:13p (Aborted), 1:15p (Aborted).
Ken never said where he was at that time, or that he was on his way downtown. The next day, I found out by the parking attendant that Ken came by the car and went in it. He told me that he saw the "Pest Control" truck so he knew it was my husband.
Chase Credit Card
On September 2, 2009, I removed both Chase credit cards from the lockbox at home - balance $0, credit limit $4,600.
The last payment on that account was made in March 2006 and no activity since. Both cards, one in my name and one in Ken's name were at home, with both stickers on it, not activated.
This credit card was originally in my name only but later on, I added Ken as a joint account holder. Because of this, Chase is unable to remove him without his authorization. They will send paperwork at home and we both need to sign in order to remove him from the account. As of today, the card in his name is shred and mine is to be placed in a secure safe deposit box.
Another possibility is to cancel this joint account and open a new one in my name only.
The last payment on that account was made in March 2006 and no activity since. Both cards, one in my name and one in Ken's name were at home, with both stickers on it, not activated.
This credit card was originally in my name only but later on, I added Ken as a joint account holder. Because of this, Chase is unable to remove him without his authorization. They will send paperwork at home and we both need to sign in order to remove him from the account. As of today, the card in his name is shred and mine is to be placed in a secure safe deposit box.
Another possibility is to cancel this joint account and open a new one in my name only.
Bank of America
On September 1, 2009 - I called Bank of America regarding our credit card - balance of $12,700, credit limit of $13,500.
Ken is an authorized user of the account, using a card in his name but with the same number as mine. Bank of America removed him as an authorized user and I gave them permission to cancel both cards and to re-issue one in my name only that will be mailed at home within 7-10 business days.
As of today, Ken has no access to the Bank of America credit card and is not authorized to use it.
Ken is an authorized user of the account, using a card in his name but with the same number as mine. Bank of America removed him as an authorized user and I gave them permission to cancel both cards and to re-issue one in my name only that will be mailed at home within 7-10 business days.
As of today, Ken has no access to the Bank of America credit card and is not authorized to use it.
Friday 8/28/09
Part of my birthday present was a overnight trip to a spa/resort and I chose to go to Baltimore, Maryland. Left Chicago Friday 8/28 at 1:30p - MDW to BWI SW 1999 and returned to Chicago Saturday 8/29 at 5:25pm - BWI to MDW SW 1845. I stayed at the Turf Valley Resort in Ellicott City, Maryland, Room 528 Junior Suite. I purchased the place ticket via TCF Bank and the room and rental car through Enterprise was charged on Bank of America credit card. Ken gave me $100 cash out of the savings account and $50 cash out of his pocket to enjoy the trip.
Here are the records of the texts/calls between Ken and I on Friday night. He knew that I was at the resort as I called him several times to inform him of my arrival in Baltimore and at the resort.
Ken 5:25p "What are u do n"
Home 5:52p (0:03)
Home 5:53p (0:31)
Home 5:54p (0:24)
Home 5:56p (0:31)
Ken 6:32p (Aborted)
Ken 6:33p (Aborted)
Ken 6:36p (1:17)
Ken 6:38p (Aborted)
Ken 6:39p (Aborted)
Ken 6:40p (Aborted)
Ken 6:41p (Aborted)
Ken 6:41p (Aborted 2)
Ken 6:44p (Aborted)
Ken 6:45p (Aborted)
Ken 6:46p (Aborted)
Ken 6:47p (Aborted)
Ken 6:50p (Aborted)
Ken 6:50p (Aborted 2)
Ken 6:51p "Cal me"
Anne 6:52p "If its not an emergency about the kids don't call me....I'm here to relax! Don't ruin my trip..."
Ken 6:54p "Why u make common like u are there with somebody"
Ken 7:07p (Aborted)
Ken 7:10p "Cal me on more time and I wont cal u da rest of da night"
Ken 7:23p "I don't know da name of your restor what is it"
Ken 7:25p (Aborted)
Ken 7:26p VOICE MAIL
Ken 7:41p (Aborted)
Home 7:47p (Aborted)
Anne 7:49p "U seriously need to stop calling me...You're pissing me off"
Home 7:48p (Aborted)
Ken 7:51p "What da name of where u are"
Anne 7:52p "Turf valley"
Ken 7:53p "Why u dont give name of place 2 me"
Ken 7:54p "What that hard to do"
Home 8:00p (Aborted)
Home 8:02p (Aborted)
Ken 8:41p "I look online that place is also a romantic getaway an dance an concer u did not say it had all that"
Home 9:09p (Aborted)
Home 9:29p (Aborted)
Home 9:53p (Aborted)
Ken 9:58p VOICE MAIL
Ken 9:58p "Cal home"
Home 10:01p (Aborted)
Home 10:14p (Aborted)
Home 10:15p (Aborted)
Ken 10:16p VOICE MAIL
Home 10:36p (Aborted)
Home 10:37p (Aborted)
Home 10:53p (Aborted)
Ken 10:56p "Who room are u in i call your and it no answer an u said trust u"
Anne 11:05p (5:45)
Ken also called the resort twice and left one voice mail on the room's phone.
Present was VN.
Here are the records of the texts/calls between Ken and I on Friday night. He knew that I was at the resort as I called him several times to inform him of my arrival in Baltimore and at the resort.
Ken 5:25p "What are u do n"
Home 5:52p (0:03)
Home 5:53p (0:31)
Home 5:54p (0:24)
Home 5:56p (0:31)
Ken 6:32p (Aborted)
Ken 6:33p (Aborted)
Ken 6:36p (1:17)
Ken 6:38p (Aborted)
Ken 6:39p (Aborted)
Ken 6:40p (Aborted)
Ken 6:41p (Aborted)
Ken 6:41p (Aborted 2)
Ken 6:44p (Aborted)
Ken 6:45p (Aborted)
Ken 6:46p (Aborted)
Ken 6:47p (Aborted)
Ken 6:50p (Aborted)
Ken 6:50p (Aborted 2)
Ken 6:51p "Cal me"
Anne 6:52p "If its not an emergency about the kids don't call me....I'm here to relax! Don't ruin my trip..."
Ken 6:54p "Why u make common like u are there with somebody"
Ken 7:07p (Aborted)
Ken 7:10p "Cal me on more time and I wont cal u da rest of da night"
Ken 7:23p "I don't know da name of your restor what is it"
Ken 7:25p (Aborted)
Ken 7:26p VOICE MAIL
Ken 7:41p (Aborted)
Home 7:47p (Aborted)
Anne 7:49p "U seriously need to stop calling me...You're pissing me off"
Home 7:48p (Aborted)
Ken 7:51p "What da name of where u are"
Anne 7:52p "Turf valley"
Ken 7:53p "Why u dont give name of place 2 me"
Ken 7:54p "What that hard to do"
Home 8:00p (Aborted)
Home 8:02p (Aborted)
Ken 8:41p "I look online that place is also a romantic getaway an dance an concer u did not say it had all that"
Home 9:09p (Aborted)
Home 9:29p (Aborted)
Home 9:53p (Aborted)
Ken 9:58p VOICE MAIL
Ken 9:58p "Cal home"
Home 10:01p (Aborted)
Home 10:14p (Aborted)
Home 10:15p (Aborted)
Ken 10:16p VOICE MAIL
Home 10:36p (Aborted)
Home 10:37p (Aborted)
Home 10:53p (Aborted)
Ken 10:56p "Who room are u in i call your and it no answer an u said trust u"
Anne 11:05p (5:45)
Ken also called the resort twice and left one voice mail on the room's phone.
Present was VN.
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